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Advocating by Walking for NJ’s Children!

Giving Every Child A Chance to Grow Up Safe, Healthy, and Educated

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Advocating by Walking for NJ's Children!

Steve Clayton, me, and Catherine Felegi, two of my friends who work for ACNJ before the Advocates for Children of New Jersey’s First Race!

Despite NJ still being in a heat emergency, I walked 5K (3.1 miles) this morning to support Advocates for Children of New Jersey‘s First Race!

It was hot and humid, but there was no better place to be than with fellow advocates who believe every child needs a chance to grow up safe, healthy, and educated.

Advocates for Children of New Jersey is one of the dozens of non-profits Jan and I have supported as donors and volunteers.

Advocates for Children of New Jersey (ACNJ) works with local, state, and federal leaders to identify and implement changes that will benefit New Jersey’s children.

As I walked around the Orange Reservoir, I remembered taking an abbreviated walk with Jan in the final months of her life.

As much as I miss Jan, I knew I was fulfilling our commitment to Tikun Olam by walking today.

Our work to repair the world and our love will never die!


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