Happy Birthday, Jan!
Jan's Transformative Love Will Never Die!
Estimated reading time: 2 minutes, 5 seconds
I woke up at half past five, as I have for the last third of a century.
“Happy Birthday, my love,” I announced while my eyes adjusted to the dim light of the new day.
My eyes turned to Jan’s side of the bed and realized that no one was there.
Looking at the Peace Lllly, I accepted that I was alone. I was tempted to rotate the plant to see the blooms, but I chose not to out of concern that the plant might end up on the floor.
Stumbling into my kitchen, I accepted that this would be the second Birthday since 1974 that I would celebrate without the love of my life.
Two year’s ago, at the end of hospice, I wished her a happy birthday, but I am not sure she heard me.
Last year, more than one hundred friends joined our family and the Hanson Park Conservancy volunteers to celebrate her life as we dedicated and broke ground on Jan’s memorial garden. Although it was the day after Jan’s Birthday, the final planting and mulching of Jan’s Memorial Garden was completed on April 25, 2023. The short video provides an overview of the garden.
What began as a desire to plant a tree to honor Jan has become a living memorial.
- One hundred seventy-three friends donated to purchase two memorial benches,
- Working with the Hanson Park Conservancy, we transformed the triangular garden at the entrance by adding flower beds and a wind sculpture for meditation, contemplation, and dreams,
- The final cost of the two benches was less than what was raised, and
- The balance was used to establish the Jan Lilien Education Fund, which will sponsor ongoing sustainability and environmental awareness programs.
My family and I will be forever grateful to all the friends who have helped make this dream a reality.
Although I will always miss Jan, her love, which transformed my life and others, will never die.
Happy Birthday to the love of my life!
The Jan Lilien Education Fund sponsors ongoing sustainability and environmental awareness programs. Gifts made this month; I will match dollar-for-dollar. All donations are tax-deductible.
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Working with the Hanson Park Conservancy, we have taken significant steps in building Jan's Memorial Triangle Garden at Hanson Park including installing the Wind Sculpture.
Borthday Flowers for Jan
Jan's Transformative Love Will Never Die!
Estimated reading time: 2 minutes, 5 seconds
