Jan Was a Wonderful Woman
We Have Work That Still Needs to Be Done!
Estimated reading time: 1 minute, 24 secondsMy car’s outdoor temperature reading shows 88 degrees Fahrenheit, but my weather app says it’s 86 degrees Fahrenheit. Despite the discrepancy, it’s sweltering for the first week of May. I arrived at a meeting with Bridges and a local community as the Board chair, and this is the purpose I’ve been looking for since building Jan’s Memorial Garden. I accidentally walked through the metal detector as nobody was there to stop me, causing it to beep loudly like a burst plastic shipping bag. The first person I met at the meeting asked how I was doing, and when I replied, “OK,” he persisted, asking, “How are you really?”
I explained that it had been three years since Jan died last Friday, and I am taking a step-by-step approach to move forward. I find it easier to answer questions about my progress now because I believe in transparency. Being honest and open about my progress has always been my default position.
He paused momentarily, took a deep breath, and said, “Jan was a wonderful woman.” His words were soothing, but they also reminded me of the pain I felt from her absence. However, he continued, “I know how much you miss her, but as she would have said, we still have work to do.” His words were a gentle reminder that life goes on, and we must keep moving forward.
As our conversation ended, we stood up, and he extended his hand for a handshake. However, we decided not to shake hands because he suffers from hay fever. Despite this, I felt a sense of comfort knowing that our conversation had provided me with a bit of solace and inspiration to carry on.
Walking for 1097 Days
We Have Work That Still Needs to Be Done!
Estimated reading time: 1 minute, 24 seconds