Writers and Lovers by Lily King is a page turner of a book. I was engaged with Casey and had to continue reading to learn how she resolved the crises. The loss of her mother was a constant reminder of my loss. Although she mourned in a different way than I am, there was much we had in common.
Is Resilience My Hidden Power?
The Art of Being Adaptable
I received a call from a friend who offered their condolences regarding the loss of Jan. During our conversation; my friend mentioned that I was a resilient individual and that this trait would assist me in moving forward without Jan. While I acknowledged my friend’s sentiment, I was uncertain why they believed my resilience would be particularly beneficial in this situation.
Adaptability has been explored in depth in the context of prevention strategies, with “The Art of Being Adaptable” in Prevention offering valuable insights into the subject matter. This work posits that adaptability is crucial in any successful prevention strategy and provides potential solutions for cultivating and maintaining this trait. Focusing on the importance of flexibility, resilience, and open-mindedness, this work offers practical advice on adapting to changing circumstances. Ultimately, by embracing adaptability as a core value, individuals and organizations can better prepare themselves for challenges. The specific definition that Prevention used was:
Resilience is a set of coping mechanisms we develop over time, and research in the field of positive psychology has found that this quality is determined in part by how we take care of ourselves, the people we surround ourselves with, and what we do to find meaning and purpose in our everyday lives.
Jan’s love has been my guiding light, even in the darkest times. Her unwavering devotion has given me the strength to persevere through life’s obstacles.
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