Such a Fun Age is a bighearted story about race and privilege, set around a young Black babysitter, her well-intentioned employer, and a surprising connection that threatens to undo them both. In a time when race and privilege are issues that need to be addressed, I recommend this book with our reservation.
Pandora’s Box of Traumas
During Saturday group, someone mentioned she felt grief had opened a door in her mind to long-forgotten memories. Now she had a Pandora’s Box of traumas on the loose.
Her description struck a chord with me, as I was overwhelmed by old, long-forgotten traumas. These old misfortunes confused my thinking and led me down unnecessary rabbit holes.
I will always miss Jan, but I do not need to ask if she loved me because of old traumas when love was a mirage.
Our love was unique and will never die!