Interpreter of Maladies by Jhumpa Lahiri is an incredible book. Each short story is a page-turner that I will re-read many times. As Ms. Lahiri writes, “The question of identity is always a difficult one, but especially so for those who are culturally displaced, as immigrants are, or those who grow up in two worlds simultaneously, as is the case for their children.”
The Courage to be Kind!
As I approach the fourteenth month without Jan, the love of my life, I have learned a few lessons that have helped me manage life without her.
As much as I always thought of myself as a kind person, grief has helped me become a kinder person.
My new levels of compassion and empathy are my superpower.
They do not mitigate or hide my grief but allow me to be able to help others.
When I help others, it helps me as much as I help them.
Being kind helps me not only endure my endless days and nights of mourning, but it provides meaning in a life that otherwise would be adrift in troubled waters.
Having the courage to be kind gives me the resilience to endure life without Jan.
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