Richard W. Brown December 20, 2021
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Plaques Installed on Jan’s Memorial Benches

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Jan’s memorial plaques in Hanson Park in Cranford, NJ, were installed yesterday! Thanks to the one hundred seventy-three donors who helped purchase the benches! In the photos, Ellen McHenry, President of the Hanson Park Conservancy, sits next to me.

 

Jan’s memorial plaques in Hanson Park Conservancy in Cranford, NJ, were installed yesterday! Thanks to the one hundred…

Posted by Richard W. Brown on Monday, December 20, 2021


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Today, I started reading the novel “Fire Exit” by Morgan Talty. The book is the debut novel of the award-winning author of “Night of the Living Rez,” Morgan Talty. “Fire Exit” is a compelling story that explores the themes of family, legacy, culture, and our complex obligations toward one another. These are themes that I have focused on after losing my wife.

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