Social Malfunctioning
We All Should Be Helping Our Neighbors
Estimated reading time: 1 minute, 45 secondsDuring my walk today, I experienced a few unexpected moments that left me grateful. I was lost in my thoughts and didn’t even realize I still had my walking shoes on when I got home. While changing my shirt, I noticed that the Peace Lilly plant next to Jan’s framed photo had new growth, with three fresh blooms. It was a beautiful reminder to cherish every moment because life continues.
Whenever I look at a photo of Jan, I update her on my day. It’s comforting to have her presence with me. I explained that I had climbed the long stairway onto the train platforms during my walk, just like I did for the Big Climb. It was a challenging experience that reminded me of the importance of perseverance.
As I walked along the crowded train platform toward Newark, I saw a woman who appeared to need help. Her book bag had pulled the hem of her dress up above her waist. Despite being surrounded by a dozen men and women, no one had offered to help her. The issue with the wardrobe wasn’t just a tiny problem; it was a more significant social issue that required attention. I couldn’t just stand by and watch; therefore, I approached her and offered my assistance. She was grateful for the support and quickly resolved the issue.
Jan taught me to be a role model to our sons and other men and to treat women respectfully and kindly. Looking at her photo and the Peace Lily, I felt grateful for all the lessons she taught me.
As I left the bedroom, I whispered, “I love you, Jan.”
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Peace Lilly Blooms Again!
We All Should Be Helping Our Neighbors
Estimated reading time: 1 minute, 45 secondsI felt happy after my morning walk when I saw my Peace Lily flourishing. Two new stems were about to bloom, which added to the beauty of the ones that had already blossomed. Although I’m not an expert in plant care, I’m proud to have nurtured them with love and attention. It brings me great pleasure to see them thriving.
My grandmother, a wise woman, once shared that love is the key to a fulfilling life. I strongly believe in this statement, and it led me to meet and marry Jan, who became a source of inspiration and motivation for me. Her love and care went beyond our relationship and extended to my plants. Even though she’s not with me anymore, her love still nourishes and sustains me and my plants.
Remember, love is the secret ingredient that can make all the difference in our lives and the lives of those around us.
Grateful for Jan’s Love and Support
Expressing gratitude and love may seem effortless but require commitment and dedication. My wife, Jan, and I shared an unbreakable bond of love and mutual responsibility to repair the world. Despite our individual and collective flaws, we remained passionate about our work and helping others, giving us purpose and fulfillment.
Unfortunately, Jan was diagnosed with Lymphoma three years ago, and although we were optimistic about her recovery, her cancer took an unexpected turn.
Life has taught me an important lesson: Never take the people you love for granted. Be thankful for today because, in one moment, your entire life could change.
